Questions before you bind yourself

Hey,

Marriage is an important step in your life. Make sure you are prepared for next step in Your life and make sure that You had enough conversation with him/her to understand the person.
Here I just listed some couple of questions which could help you to take a decision before any commitment, this is just an idea about, So don't follow exactly as its mentioned here. This is the collective of information from internet and other various sources...
here you go!!!!!!

1.       What is his/her mother tongue?

2.       What is his/her religion and belief?

3.       Does s/he talkative?

4.       Do you like her/his pragmatic physical look appearance?

5.       Does s/he look like healthy?

6.       Does s/he has a happy life style?

7.       Do you believe that will s/he taking care of each other health and body?

8.    How about her/his social communication?

9.    What’s his/her opinion about privacy?

10.   Does s/he respecting others freedom?

11.   How about her/his dressing sense?

12.   Does s/he mind or control your dressing sense?

13.   How about her/his friendship circle? Does s/he ready to mingle along with you?

14.   How about her/his relative and cousins? Does s/he ready to mingle along with you?

15.   Do you believe that you can satisfy her/his Family and In-law’s expectation?

16.   Do you believe that s/he can satisfy ur Family expectation?

17.   Do you know her/his hobbies... Travel, Roaming, Photo shooting, Cooking, swimming, sports,...etc,

18.   Do you mind to control her/his hobbies?

19.   Does s/he will control your hobbies?

20.   Do you respect her/his education qualification?

21.   Do you support for her/his future education?

22.   Do you know that does s/he support your future education?

23.   Does s/he w has work experience?

24.   Are You OK with her/his salary?

25.   Are You OK with her/his saving?

26.   Do you know her/his life future expectation i.e. work, savings,...

27.   How about her/his general communication with family circle and friends?

28.   Does s/h treat you equally?

29.   Does s/he treat people equally?

30.   Do you feel extreme happy or proud to introduce ur life partner to your friends

31.   Are you OK with her/his current living place?

32.   Are you ready to move to her/his living place?

33.   Are you ready to move another place in nearby future? Have u talked about that?

34.   Does s/he want children? Have you talked about making children plan?

35.   Do you believe that you can satisfy her/his sexual expectations?

36.   What is her/his monthly in-hand income?

37.   Has s/he taken any personal loans that s/he is paying off?

38.   Is s/he a loan? How many more years does s/he have to pay off the installments?

39.   Is s/he okay if you have a separate bank account?

40.   Will s/he allow you to financially support your parents after your marriage?

41.   What is the kind of savings s/he has on a monthly basis?

42.   What is her/his bank balance as of now?

43.   Does s/he have any credit card debt?

44.   If you are a working, how much of your salary does s/he expect you to contribute, in terms of monthly expenditure?

45.   Is s/he a spendthrift? How much does s/he spend every month on extras?

46.   Is s/he a miser?

47.   Do you want to know her/his past relationship story? If any

48.   Are you OK with her/his hygienic level?

49.   Are you OK with his addiction if any i.e Drinking, Smoking, Drugs, Lie etc

50.   Are you ready to take medical test? Does s/he agreed to take medical test? if needed

51.   Does s/he get violent when angry?

52. Why s/he choose this arrange/fixed marriage? 
53. Does s/he has enough sense of humor feelings?
54. Will You happy to introduce your proposed life partner to your circle (Friends, Colleagues, Relatives)

Here few more information (Questions from B2B) with details which may repeated but still its good to know and raise these Q to yourself.

1. The Right Family
After meeting your in-laws, understand for yourself whether you will be able to adjust with the family or not. In India it is said that when you get married you getting married to the family. So will this marriage to the family work out?

2. Nuclear or Joint?
Moving in with a man into a new house is NOT the easiest thing in the world. Will you be able to adjust to the change? Moreover, will your in-laws live with you?

3. Money Matters
Is s/he financially secure to take care of you and a family in the future? Does his bank balance allow you to lead a lifestyle the way you did before marriage?

4. Joint Money
Will you continue to support your family? Are you expected to contribute to his "home-loan"? How will you decide how much to pool in together how much money is yours to spend alone?

5. Religion
If you are from different religions, it is important for you to respect each other's religions. Will you be expected to follow his religious customs? Do you want to? What about your kids? Which customs will they be expected to follow?

6. Career
Will your career be important post-marriage? Are you expected to quit and stay at home? Will you be able to pursue your career just the way you did before marriage?

7. Fidelity
Your relationship is based on trust. Are you clear on what your partner's thoughts on fidelity are? Today, emotional infidelity is considered to be as bad as sexual cheating.

8. Sex
To begin with are you sexually attracted to opposite sex? Do you know what your partner expects of you sexually?

9. Children
Does s/he want to have children? How many does s/he want and when should you have your first child? Do you not want a child? Do you want to adopt? Is s/he fine with these decisions?

10. Addictions
Does your prospective husband have any addictions - alcohol, drugs, sex (yes!)? Can you confront him about such issues?

11. Past Perfect?
What do you know about his past? Everyone has a secret to hide. Does s/he have a criminal record or been accused of fraud? What about his past relationships?

12. Medical Past
Is there a history of mental illness in his family? Or a hereditary disease, which might be seen your kids? Does s/he suffer from an illness that requires constant medical attention?

13. Wife or Servant?
Who will look after household chores? Will s/he share them with you? Will you be able to do it all alone? Can you hire help?

14. Hygiene
Do you know enough about his personal hygiene habits? You don't want a smelly husband to go to bed with for the rest of your life! Some habits like picking one's nose or digging the ears in public may seem 'just annoying' to some, but ask yourself if you are willing to put up with it.

15. Communication
Reams have been written on how men and women are from different planets. But, it is important to know whether you can freely express yourself to your partner to be. Also, do you feel s/he "shares" his thoughts with you freely?

16. Family - Friends
You are two different people with a different bunch of family and friends. Will they be able to bond with each other? Harmony outside your relationship is also important.

17. Personal Space
Will you still have the time to do those things that you want to, alone? Will your partner understand when you want to go out for a movie or dinner with friends and not him?

18. Common Cause
Do you have enough common ideas, thoughts, hobbies, things to do that will keep you together? Yes, opposites attract but vast dissimilarities can push you apart!

19. Abuse
Does your prospective husband respect women? Will s/he maintain your dignity inside and outside the house? Observe his behaviour and comments about women.

20. Commitment
Is s/he mean the marriage for long-term commitment? Will s/he - as clichéd as it sounds - stay with you through thick and thin, joy and sorrow, riches and rags?
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Here few more information with details which may repeated but still its good to know and raise these Q:-

For the sake of money:
1. What is his/her monthly in-hand income?
2. Any personal loans that s/he is paying off?
3. On a home loan? How many more years does s/he have to pay off the installments?
4. Is he/she okay if you have a separate bank account?

Okay so far? Moving on. What about the following career issues?
5. How many jobs has he/she switched till date? Any particular reasons for doing so?
6. If he/she gets a job overseas, will he/she take it? What if it doesn’t offer a family status?

Now comes the tricky part. Could these health queries make or break a marriage?
7. Will he/she ready to take Medical test? with your family doctor?

… and these behavioural pointers:
8. Does he/she get violent when angry?

Here’s another tricky part, sexual preferences. Not THAT necessary, but useful, nonetheless:
9. Is he/she into deviant sexual practices?

And last but not the least, these social queries will give you a better idea about your future life with him/her: